just if i got everything right: first you say your BROTHER made you cheating, then you say your FRIEND downloaded the wh on your account (you got nice freinds btw --> if that is the true story)
then you talk about flubbel that he said wise words, true. BUT i dont really think that the were positive for you, otherwise he would have posted here anything or would have send a pm to doggie (if it is really true what you are saying about him!)
so all in all you want us to believe you and after what you have done it's (for me) hard to believe you. Because you cheated, then you lied twice.
A liar can always say: its the truth, but we all know that it isnt often that way

then you wanted to be unbanned and after that the admins shall watch you the whole time? they got other things to worry about.